Who's Using Who?
dear you,
i remember you ranting about this girl once.
you said you hated her--- the way she talks, the way she judges people; a backstabber.
your word to describe her was "user".
you said that so clearly to me "she's a user."
now, i've heard you two are getting along well.
that you might be, wanting to go out with her. or have went out already?
so what's this? the user is now going out with the user?
another one of those times when you eat your own words.
another one of those times when you fall for the one you hate.
another fixation.
typical.
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people change; physically, emotionally...heart and soul and everything else, human nature -that's what what it is...sometimes in a good way...sometimes in a bad, weird or disgusting way
ReplyDeletecheer up :) and listen to alanis morissette's you oughta know (but really don't have to listen to it hehehe
disgusting way it is. :P
Deletegood advice on alanis morissette's song. haha. thanks, arya! :)
i freaking hate people like that... while I understand that people change there's no reason to put them down like you're above them
ReplyDeleteSo true.
DeleteNice post! I agree with you.
ReplyDeleteHave a nice day!
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Beth
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It's really hard to understand how people can change like that. You just can't predict it, I guess. Thank you for your visit to my blog and for taking the time to comment there. Wishing you a nice day!
ReplyDeleteHave a great day, Daisy!
DeleteThat's a touch one...
ReplyDeleteIt sure is.
DeleteWhy ARE people like that?
ReplyDeleteHow can they change so easily?
Human Nature, I suppose....but I, for one, will never understand...:/
Exactly!
DeleteIt's tough but at least you found out in time that he not only a user but also a looser. He won't change and he got what he deserves, time will tell. Two negatives will not make a positive relationship. The sad truth is you're better off without him.
DeleteJB
Two negatives will not make a positive relationship. <--- i love this!
DeleteIt used to be a sad truth, Julia. Now, I'm just rejoicing in it. :)
Hugs!
Half of the times, judgments people make are based on fake proofs and pre-notions... people pass comments without actually even knowing the person... so when 'he' actually got to know 'her', 'he' must have realized that 'she' is not at all a bad person and what 'he' used to think about 'her' was all wrong...
ReplyDeleteI met my love the same way actually... I used to strongly dislike him but when I got to know the real him, he turned out to be a sweetheart... I misjudged him earlier and now he is the best thing I have :)
So 'he' is not that bad at all... neither 'her'... Again its all about perception, how you see things :)
You've got a beautiful story. To each his own though.
DeleteAs for these two, EVERYONE around share the same opinion about them. So, you'll be wondering if it's only an unfair judgement you have against them or what.
Its hard to trust people nowadays, backstabber is everywhere! :)
ReplyDeleteYes they are.
DeleteSadly, there are way too much of people like that in this world. And those honest ones.. Well they are sinking somewhere in lost hope. All the best for you!
ReplyDeleteWaaay too much. Thanks, dear. You too.
Deletenicely penned. Most people are like this and most relationships are based on convenience and win-win.
ReplyDeleteI think I can relate. I have a friend who does that, and somehow it feel it is hurting me. I guess everybody has their own choice and we, if decided to be their friend, should just accept who they are:) Thanks for stopping by my blog.
ReplyDeleteZhuo
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